There is no denying the fact that for any meaningful development to take place in any given society, the interest of women must be factored into such plans from the very beginning.
This is because women are the ones that rock the cradle of the world. Without carrying women along or factoring in their interest in any development plan, the society continues to dance a macabre dance without knowing how or when to stop.
This typifies the case of the Niger-Delta region whose restless youths have continued to occupy public attention and the women acute neglect.
Senior Reporter, Anthonia Soyingbe, was at Ograigbeni community in Delta State, recently and met with some indigent women who spoke of their plight.
The 2006 Niger-Delta Human Development Report compiled by the United Nations Development Programme (UNDP) revealed that the Niger-Delta region which produces oil, accounting for more than 95 percent of Nigeria’s foreign earnings, is paradoxically embedded in poverty.
According to Mary Ovie, a senior herbal birth attendant, born three days after the assassination of late Military Head of State, Muritala Mohammed she has lived all her life in her village in Delta State.
Pregnant with her eighth child, she said, “Four of my children are now in Warri hustling while I’m here working so hard to fend for my three children. My husband only comes home when he wants to sleep with me and I can’t say no because he will beat me mercilessly if I ever attempt to do that. I wake up early every day to rush to the swamp to pick a bowl of periwinkle which I sell for N500 at the market to enable me and the children feed for the day, she said in Pidgin English.
The woman whose appearance paints a picture of abject poverty and presents the onlooker with a different perspective into the lifestyle of the average woman in the rural Niger-delta region has a child who is suffering from acute malnutrition because apart from the periwinkles she spends three hours every morning picking, she cannot farm because the land is polluted hence cannot grow anything.
According to her neighbours, her case is made more pathetic because her husband, an ex-militant benefitted from the Federal Government amnesty program. He was among those sent abroad for training. But rather than use the opportunity wisely, he now has children from seven other women.
Ovie, again mirrors the plight of most women in that area whose husbands are today billionaires but have been abandoned.
Dr. Evelyn Urhobo, Chief Executive Officer of Morgan Smart Development Foundation, has travelled the length and breadth of the region through her empowerment programs for women in the region. She said women in the region are suffering untold hardship. She said government and human rights organizations are not doing enough for the women in that region.
Urhobo, an indigene of the region called on relevant bodies to stand up and bring succor to the women who are really suffering. Hear her, “I don’t see what most of all these First Ladies’ projects translate to for women development at the grassroot level. It is so painful that all the attention is on the men who after collecting money; abandon their families to marry other women. We are concentrating on women in Niger-Delta and my take is that there is a conspiracy of silence against women in this area.
These are the women who gave birth to all these militants, kidnappers and all the youths carrying out anti-social activities. Has anybody stopped to ask the question on what went wrong and why we are experiencing all these? It is okay to say it is because of joblessness but there are situations where mothers still fend for their jobless children. What will happen if that mother is jobless? We have lost our moral values because our women are incapacitated. Women in my region are clothed in poverty and have been stripped of their dignity. Women in the region watch their children become street urchins because they can’t fend for them. They wake up in the morning and they can’t even guarantee what they will feed their children with. At a very early age, these children have to fend for themselves or die. Since everybody has the natural instinct to survive, they do anything to survive. These children grow into picking up anti-social vices to survive life in the area.”
Speaking further she lamented the “disconnect because the mother couldn’t meet her responsibilities towards her children. Why is nobody talking about these things? Big votes are being made to rehabilitate ex-militants. The only way you can cure an ailment is to go to the root of that ailment and tackle it. What structures are they putting in place to effectively address the situation of poverty of the women in the region? In the last 12 years that MSDF has been working in the region, we have come face to face with poverty. I hear of poverty alleviation and women empowerment, who is in charge? Who is in charge of bringing succor to these women?
Let us draw the attention of everybody so that government will come to the aid of these women so that we can restore their dignity and make them take charge of their responsibilities as nation builders. By empowering them economically, the process of halting this monster of vices in our society begins. We are still scratching the issue of militancy. We are unwittingly training militants through neglect of their mothers. They will go back to the creek and don’t forget that everyday a potential militant is being born. For how long is government going to sustain this? Why can’t they deploy that budget to empowering women so they can live up to their responsibility of being proper mothers? We are not paying enough attention to the women. When last did the governors or ministers come to the rural areas to see and document how these women are living?”
Urhobo who few months ago through her organization documented the living pattern of women in Niger-Delta region said the situation is still very pathetic. “My consciousness is from that region because I am from that region. We can’t get anywhere if women issues are not properly addressed. Nigeria will be a prosperous country if we really empower women especially those at the grassroot. Government should set up the structure to address issues relating to women empowerment. We need a structure and as they are making provision for militants, they should make provision for women. Government has a responsibility of letting women have a feel of the oil that is coming from the land,” she said.
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